Thursday, May 6, 2010

We are so blessed to have so many friends and family supporting us through this hard time in our lives. We have been so blessed to have such an amazing spirit sent to us and know that his place in the kingdom of heaven is secure! He is such an amazing strong spirit and we will miss him dearly! It has been nice to have today and yesterday to say goodbye to him. He is on life support until tonight and when we feel comforted in letting him return to our loving Heavenly Father we will remove the ventilator and heart medication. Thank all of you for your continuous prayers on our behalf. We are so blessed because of him and all of you! We will hold a funeral for him and keep you posted on when it will be and where. Thank you all for your love and support! We hope to keep all of these memories with our precious angel close to our heart for all time!


  1. :'( I'm so sorry, Zeffie. My heart goes out to you & Brandon. Tatum will be greatly missed & I'm sorry I will not get the chance to meet him in this life. You are truly an inspiration with your strength, courage & exemplary mothering abilities. Please let me know how I can help through this difficult time.

  2. It has been a blessing for all of us to watch you and Brandon from near and far. You are great examples of love, strength, faith in our Savior and his eternal plan. We are all better for being part of Tatum's brief stay on this earth. And my faith has been strengthened by yours.
    Aunt Zeffie

  3. Loves to you and your sweet family, Zeffie and Brandon. What a difficult burden to bear. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this hard time. We love you. (Helaman 5:12)

    Kirt and Amberly Keeler

  4. Tatum is such a lucky little guy to have you two as his parents. He is yours forever. Its amazing to think that this life is just a blink of an eye compared to eternal life. We are so lucky to know the truth. Your little Tatum has touched so many lives and made us all better people.

  5. My heart is breaking for you! What an amazing spirit Tatum must be. I stand in awe of what a perfect being he is!
    The plan of salvation is such an awesome thing! Thank goodness for our Savior's love for us.
    May our Heavenly Father's comfort surround you.
    We love you guys!
    Aunt Dianne & Uncle Russ

  6. Darlene ProctorMay 7, 2010 at 8:37 AM

    I have been humbled by your expressions of love for our Savior and your faith in the God's plan. I have kept Tatum's name, your's & Brandon's, Mark & JaRene's, and Brandon's parents (even though I don't know their names, the Lord does) on the prayer roll. I put them on again last night in the hopes that you all will feel the comforting arms of our Savior around you.
    What a perfect little angel Tatum must be. I know you will be with him again. Trust in the Lord's plan & draw on His strength when you are struggling.
    I love you.
    Aunt Darlene